Living Abroad: A new Life in Chile – Differences between Chile & Germany

When I moved to chile three months ago the most askedquestion that I got from all my german friends and family members was which arethe biggest differences between Chile and Germany. Now that I´mliving here for a while and have seen some different spots and explored thecountry a bit, I´d like to share my thoughts with you.

But first of all I want to make clear, that this is not a judgement. It´s only a list of differences that I recognized and I don´t want to offend anyone. If your own experiences have been different, please let me know in the comments below and I will love to chat with you about it.

The biggest differences between germany and chile

One of the things that surprised me the most is how expensive living in chile is. For daily products like food, hygienic products and the living people pay way more than in germany, even though they earn less money. There is a large discrepancy between rich and poor, and it´s hard to escape those classes.
The minimum wage is only around 385 € per month and pretty often this income has to feed a hole family (time: february 2020).

L I V I N G

֎ Language: Most chileans speak only spanish and only a few of them speak english fluently. If you´ve learned spanish in school you should also be prepared that lots of words are different in chile and that you might need a bit of time to get used to the strong accent and fast chilean speaking.

֎ Safety is the key: In Chile you either have large apartment blocks, that are surrounded by high fences and to get to your apartment you have to unlock several doors. Or you life in a big building with a concierge. As a visitor you have to talk to the concierge to register yourself as a visitor and sometimes they even want to see your passport. In one building work different concierges and they change their shift. On holidays like easter or christmas it is typical to give them a little gift as a nice gesture.

֎ Alarm systems are necessary because there are lots of housebreakers that even climb up a house wall to get into a high apartment. There are lots of different systems in chile and some of them you can even turn on/off over your phone.

֎ There is always more than one bathroom. Even when the apartment is not so big, you will pretty often find one bathroom per bedroom. While in germany you have normally only one bathroom in a 3-room-apartment, you will definitely have more in chile. What also surprised me is that it´s normal to have a guest room, which pretty often isn´t used that much. In germany you would always use that extra space for something mor necessary like a work space, room to hang up the washing or something else in the daily use.

֎ The window system is also completely different. Often you have only one glass pane that you can´t open or a sliding window which opens completely. While in germany you have tilt windows that only let in a little breeze of fresh air and that you can let open over night or while you are not at home, the chilean windows only open completely. So at nighttime in summer you have to choose between being too warm for sleeping or risking a housebreaker, which happens actually pretty often.

֎ Every bedroom has a built-in-wardrobe and I´ve never seen a nicely decorated single closet like in germany.

֎ Helpers: Having a maid, a cleaner or other type of helper is way cheaper in chile and even people who don´t have a big apartment or good paying job have a cleaner that comes every two weeks. The more wealthy families have maids, which is a full-time nanny that cooks and looks after the kids. Pretty often there is even a little room in the house for the maid, so that she can stay over night if she wants to.

֎ Holidays: If a national holiday is on the weekend, it gets postponed to the next monday, so you get a long-weekend and never miss-out on a holiday. Chileans take their celebrations very serious and when it is their national holiday, people usually take of a hole week in mid-september to celebrate. The law even says, that every house needs to be decorated with a chilean flag.

֎ Expenses: Chile is a very expensive country. Even though the majority of the chilean residents earn less money compared to germans, living in chile is more expensive. Daily products like food and hygienic products cost way more and in chile you also have to pay for the school/university of your children extra as well as doctor invoices.

F O O D

֎ Ordering food is really easy in this country and you can get your supermarket order within 60 minutes.

֎ Supermarkets are always open, even on sundays and holidays often up to 11pm.

֎ Plastic reduce isn´t a big thing here yet. Lots of products come in unnecessary plastic bags and some products like jam or ketchup come in a pastic bag instead of a jar.

֎ You can´t buy alcohol at all times.

֎ There is a job for everything in chile. In supermarkets there is a person who weighs your fruits, than another one who is doing the same with your bakery products. Next tot he cashier is also someone who helps you packing your bags and if you came with a car someone will help you to park out.

֎ Waiting is a real thing in Chile. Some processes in this country are not good organised nor do they work efficiently, so if you want to life in chile, you have to get used to waiting in line. Pretty often you also have to get a numer at the service counter, even if a store is completely empty and there is no reason for getting a number and wait.

֎ One of the things I miss the most from germany is the bread. Luckily the are a few german bakeries (and also some french ones as well) that save my breakfast.

R E L A T I O N S H I P S

֎ Friends for a lifetime: If you grow up in Chile you will meet the friends that you will spend all your life with in school or college. Chileans take their social circles very serious and the first question that always comes after asking for the name of someone is in which college he graduated. ALWAYS!
This question seems so weird to me, but by telling the college name, chileans rate the potential of a person, know in which social circle someone is and decide if they want to deepen a conversation or not.
It is really hard to break out of these circles and I met a few people from other countries like venezuela, colombia or argentina that say that they´ve lived in chile for years now, but haven´t really found deep connections ´cause chileans don´t let new friends in their circle.

֎ Finding friends: So like I said it can be pretty tough to find new friends. I for myself was lucky as my boyfriend introduced me to a ton of his friends and they all welcomed me nicely. I also looked in a german facebook group for some germans and created a girls group that now meets at least once a week for dinner. So I guess it depends on yourself and how hard you are trying to find friends. To me everyone was very welcoming and I love how passionate and warm-hearted my chilean friends welcomed me.

֎ The love aspect: Two things have been pretty weird to me. First of all couples don´t live together until they are married, which means that it is totally normal for a 27-year-old-one to still live at home and let your parents or maid do everything.

֎ The question: The second thing that always surprises me is how often people ask you when you will get married. I always found it so weird when I saw this in american movies, because no one would ever do that in germany, especially not random people from the street. But whenever I´m going to a party or dinner with my boyfriend people ask the marriage-question even though we are just a couple for 1,5 years and still have lots of time.

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M O R E    D I FF E R E N C E S

֎ Weddings I: As I told you already chileans love their celebrations. At summer time there are lots of them and for the last couple of weeks I´ve been to 10 (!) weddings. The weddings here are totally different from what I was used from germany. Pretty often they are huge with over 500 guests and often there are people on the wedding that don´t even know the bride or the groom. In chile it is typical that the parents pay for the wedding and therefor they invite their friends as well to the wedding. There is even a table fort he friends of the brother of a bride (and in chile families are big as well, couples usually have 4 kids – so you can imagine how many table only the siblings of the married coupke get ;-)) So going to a wedding is big event here, which normally last until the sun rises and the locations are so beautifully decorated as if you would live in an american rom-com.

֎ Weddings II: You don´t go to a wedding without a date. Seriously. You don´t. On chilean weddings you mainly dance with your date, so no one ever comes solo.

֎ Buses: If you want to take a bus, you have to wave to the drivers otherwise he might not stop at your station. If you leave the bus you normally thank the driver with a loud ”gracias”. To take the bus you need a bip-card, which looks like a credit card and can get filled up with money. There are also lots of metro stations, but most of them don´t work at the moment due to the burning protests of the end of the year (2019).

֎ Homeless dogs are everywhere, but they are no problem in general. They even cross the streets and know when ist green and they can walk or if they have to stop at red. It is really impressing and sometimes fun to watch.

So these are the differences between Chile and Germany that I recognized so far. Have you ever been in Chile and found some more?

What was the strangest difference for you?

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42 comments

  1. I’ve never been to Chile or Germany so this was an interesting comparison of both places – you are lucky you got to live in both! 🙂

    Hope that you are having a lovely weekend 🙂

    1. Hi Mica,
      now that I read your comment I think I should have written a bit more about the life in germany than 😀
      Didn´t really thought about it before, cause my german life just seems so „normal“ to me, just because I´m used to it.

      Wish you a fantastic start in the new week,

      Tiziana

    1. Hi Ashlee,
      yes you are right! I always love exploring other way of living and different cultures. So many things are similar in this modern world, as everything seems connected, but there are still lots of differences at the same time.

      Have a great start in the new week gorgeous!

  2. Oh, das war enorm faszinierend zu lesen, vielen Dank! Gerade am Freitag hatte ich eine längere Unterhaltung mit einer chilenischen Arbeitskollegin und jetzt verstehe ich sie noch besser. Ich finde, Du hast gute Lösungen gefunden, für die Herausforderungen. Habt Ihr ebenfalls Personal, das Euch unterstützt?
    Liebe Grüße, Rena
    http://www.dressedwithsoul.com

    1. Hallo liebe Rena, das ist ja cool, dass du eine chilenische Kollegin hast. Da hinnterlasse ich doch mal unbekannterweise ganz liebe Grüße! 🙂
      Und zu deiner Frage, nein wir haben derzeit kein Personal, dass uns hilft. Im Moment sind wir nur zu zweit und ich bin es gewohnt, alles selbst zu machen. Wenn irgendwann Kinder dazukommen, könnte sich das aber ändern. Da ist man dann ja wirklich froh, wenn man ein wenig Unterstützung im Haushalt bekommt 🙂

  3. There are lots of considerations when you move to a completely different country, and even continent alone. It is great that there are resources out there and there is a lot to learn about a culture. Thanks for sharing your experience so far!

    Nancy ♥ exquisitely.me

    1. Hi Nancy, I´m glad you liked the post. And yes you are so right, it is not easy to move to a different country. So I hope with my post I might help others that maybe will be in a similar situation 🙂

      Have a great day,
      Tiziana

  4. Such an interesting post.
    I’m also living aboard in Middle East.
    And just like in Chile we have so many bathrooms in our house. A bathroom for each bedroom.
    And as a French I really understand how bread can miss you.
    And I also lived in South Korea and I used to take the buses and it was the same as in Chile if you didn’t wave they would not stop. And the first time I missed my bus because I didn’t wave haha.
    It’s really fun to see all the differences between each country.
    xx
    Margot
    https://troughthepasturesofthesky.com

    1. Hi Margot oh that sounds so exotic to live in the middle east. I bet there are so many differences to france! I will probably move to france for a year in a few months, so I´m excited to find out about the differences there. Even though I guess there are not so many between france and germany as it´s really close to each other and I´ve been lots of times in france already. But living somewhere is so different than just being on holidays, right? 🙂

      Wis you a great start in the new week!

  5. Liebe Titziana,
    das ist so klasse. So habe ich mir Chile ehrlich gesagt gar nicht vorgestellt. Schön dass du so tolle Lösungen gefunden hast. Ich wünsche dir noch sehr viel Spaß und danke dir, dass du so einen tollen Beitrag darüber geschrieben hast. Sehr interessant.
    Einen schönen Abend wünsche ich Dir.
    herzliche Grüße
    Silvia

    1. Hallo liebe Silvia, freut mich wirklich sehr, dass dir der Beitrag so gefallen hat und du ein paar neue Dinge über Chile gelernt hast 🙂

      Ganz liebe Grüße,
      Tiziana

  6. Wow, ein super interessanter Beitrag und ich habe wirklich einiges Neues gelernt, deshalb danke ich dir so sehr fürs Teilen. Vor allem weil du dort lebst, hast du nochmal einen ganz anderen Blick auf die Dinge. Ich hätte niemals gedacht, dass Chile so teuer ist. Ich glaube mit dem Sicherheitsaspekt und dass alles ein bisschen länger dauert hätte ich am meisten Probleme, aber gerade das finde ich auch wieder so spannend. Die Unterschiede kennenlernen, von anderen lernen, deshalb liebe ich das Reisen so sehr. Ich schicke dir ganz ganz liebe Grüße in die Ferne, hab eine fantastische neue Woche, alles, alles liebe, x S.Mirli
    https://www.mirlime.at

    1. Hallo liebe Mirli,
      vielen Dank für deine lieben Worte. Über deine Kommentare freue ich mich echt immer am meisten, weil du so absolut ins Thema abtauchst und immer einen erfrischenden Gedanken beizutragen hast 🙂
      Es freut mich auf jeden Fall sehr, dass du ein bisschen etwas Neues über Chile gelernt hast. Am meisten überrascht haben mich auf alle Fälle die hohen Preise, das finde ich auf Dauer doch schon ziemlich schwierig zumal man aus Deutschland auch einfach höhere Gehälter und mehr Absicherung gewohnt ist, aber im Moment genieße ich meine Zeit in Chile noch sehr. Es gibt jeden Tag so viel Neues zu entdecken und ich finde es spannend, die ganzen anderen Speisen zu kosten.
      Dir erstmal noch einen guten Start in die neue Woche,
      Tiziana

    1. Hi Radi oh wow that really seems like a big change! I´ve never been in Bulgaria, but would love to explore your home country.
      Thanks for your comment. I´m glad you liked to read about my experiences in Chile.

      Have a great day,

      Tiziana

    2. Hi Lovely,
      oh living in Dubai must be even more difficult! There are so many differences to an european lifestyle. I´ve been in Dubai for only a week on holidays, but already noticed lots of differences on how they treat a women so I find it really impressive that you build yourself a life up there. Wish you all the best in Dubai!

  7. Living in a new country is always exciting, especially if it is the other side of the world 🙂 I have moved from Eastern Europe to Brazil and still can’t get used to it. Thank you for sharing your experience with us!
    Lots of love ♥ January Girl

  8. Verrückt, dass die Chilenen (sagt man das so?) so wenig verdienen und die Produkte viel teurer sind… Da kann man sich in Deutschland wirklich nicht beschweren:) Aber es ist bestimmt trotzdem eine tolle Erfahrung und vor allem bist du jetzt mit deinem Freund zusammen, dass wiegt das Ganze ja wieder auf.
    Liebe Grüße,
    Leonie von http://eyeofthelion.de

    1. Hi Leonie, schön wieder von dir zu lesen! 🙂
      Ja, die Preise finde ich nach wie vor immer noch verrückt, aber du hast recht ich bin natürlich sehr froh jetzt endlich mit meinem Freund zusammenzuleben und keine Fernbeziehung mehr zu führen 🙂
      Hab noch eine gute Woche du Süße,
      ganz liebe Grüße!

  9. Hi Tiziana,

    wow, interessanter Bericht! Ich habe schon mal auf deinem Blog gespinkst und gefunden, in welchem Beitrag du darüber berichtest, wie es dazu kam, dass du nach Chile gezogen bist 🙂 Den werde ich mal als nächstes lesen.

    Auf jeden Fall ist es sehr interessant, was du zum Leben in Chile berichtest. Zum Beispiel hätte ich nicht gedacht, dass es mehr Badezimmer in den Wohnungen im Vergleich zu Deutschland gibt oder dass die Lebenshaltungskosten verhältnismäßig hoch sind. Ich war noch nie in Chile, jedoch steht Südamerika auch noch auf meinem Reisezettel – aber ob Peru oder Chile, weiß ich noch nicht genau. Das südlichste dort war für mich bisher Mexiko.
    Ein schönes Wochenende wünsche ich dir!

  10. Hi Vanessa oh das freut mich total, dass dir meine Beiträge so gefallen und du gleich mehrere gelesen hast 🙂
    Peru und Chile habe ich mittlerweile beide ganz gut kennengelernt und muss sagen, dass ich sie viel unterschiedlicher finde, als ich erwartet hatte. Es gibt in beiden Ländern wirklich außergewöhnliche und ganz besondere Orte und auch das Essen unterscheidet sich mehr als gedacht. Ich kann dir also auf jeden Fall beide Länder sehr ans Herz legen.
    Ganz liebe Grüße!

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