On the very first night that I met my boyfriend he told me about his life dream of traveling the world just with his backpack for a couple of months before he turns 30. A few months later we started to phantasize about doing this Worldtrip together, but we lived on the other side of the world from each other and it took some time to plan and organize everything.
Two years of planning
It took us almost two years to save enough money, quit our jobs and apartments and create the perfect plan for our dream trip. We talked nights over nights about the countries that we want to see, the best travel route and which other preparations we have to do. Packing all our things and leaving both our homes behind us (mine in Germany and his in Chile) felt so scary and adventurous at the same time. Our plan was to travel for half a year and than move to France afterwards, as my boyfriend is studying a MBA there for a year. So we sold most of our things and started a new chapter of life. Our journey began in Costa Rica and the first days were great, but there was this little warning in our heads. A virus has spread in China. But that was really far away, so nothing to worry about right? We only have to take china of the travel and we’ll be fine. We were careful, washed our hands a lot and kept reading the news. And than everything changed so quickly. The corona virus spread to Europe and a bunch of other countries.
When we arrived to our second country Guatemala I felt like in a science-fiction movie. We were one of the first ones leaving the airplane and reporters waited with filming cameras on the gate. A men was pointing a little mashine on the forehead of the person in front of me and it took me a moment to understand that this was the modern version of a fever thermometer. They did a health check on all the arrivers and gave us a paper to fill out. I was surprised by the procedure, but also impressed how good everything was organised. So far so good. We were allowed to pass the border and drove to Antigua a beautiful old city in Guatemala. Only one day later Guatemala decided to close their airport completely, although there were no corona cases at that moment. Even though we were at a really warm country where the virus shouldn’t spread the safety precautions were growing and our worries too. What should we do? There was no life left that we could just go back to..
Between two borders
We decided to shorten our trip in Guatemala and travel per bus to the border so we could enter Belize and fly out from there. At that moment we were worried and really careful with who we got in contact, but I thought we could still just fly back to Chile or Germany and stay there for a while. But we couldn’t. As a German I was suddenly not allowed to enter a couple of countries, even though I haven’t been in Europe for over 6 months. When we left Guatemala I knew that they wouldn’t let me in again just because of my nationality. We double checked that the borders of Belize were open, before we left Guatemala. The belizian goverment had published a paper which allowed everyone to enter who hasn’t been in Europe for 30 days and not visited China, Iran and some other countries. So no problem I thought, but the medical station before the border control saw that differently. Before the real border control of Belize was a little tent, where doctors took the temperature of everyone with one single oldschool fever thermometer. Well at least that’s what they should have done. Instead they decided to not let anyone pass for over an hour as they were overwhelmed by the number of people that wanted to pass. The longer they waited, the longer the line of waiting people got. So they decided to say no European would be allowed to pass the border anymore and sent them away. But we had a screenshot of the declaration of the government of this morning and I knew that there was no way back for me anyway, my only chance was passing the border right in front of me.
Patience is everything
Long story short they let us wait standing in line a few hours in the heat with all over travel backpacks and things on until they finally let us pass. There was no shadow and I was so over headed and dizzy from waiting in the sun. Luckily we had some water, but lots of people didn’t. We were all worried to get put in a quarantine, because everyone was sweating and the fever thermometer probably showed a way higher number after waiting in the sun than before. Everyone that was standing at this point of border actually already passed a medical test, when we were leaving Guatemala so this was a second medical test, which was from the doctors of Belize. I totally understand that every country has to make their own checks and agree with the heath checks, but the way how they did it and how they treated the people was humiliating. As if we were criminals just because we wanted to enter a country that we had every right to. I mean it was not true that Europeans are not allowed to enter Belize just because of their nationality, what matters is who actually was in Europe lately and could have got infected by the virus. At the end of the day we made it and two long travel days later I’m finally at a place without any strangers were I can stay for a while.
The country without any health control
At the moment I’m in Chicago and stay at the house of my boyfriends brother. I’m so thankful that we now finally have a place were we can stay in self-quarantine for a while. There is food, a wifi-connection and no strangers that we have to worry about if they have the virus. Those little things mean so much to me and are a big win after the last weeks of travel troubles. The only thing that really surprised me was that there was not a single health check when we were arriving at the airport in the USA. We had to wait a few hours for the visa, which is totally normal here, but the rest seems to be normal still. Although the schools are closed, there are tons of people on the streets and families seem to take it more as holidays than as a serious situation.
What will we do next?
To be honest I have no idea. At the moment I could fly from Chicago back to Europe and make my way to Germany, but I’m not sure if that’s smarter or if I should better stay here and wait for a while until things have calmed down. All my important belongings are still in Chile as I lived there for half a year and wanted to pick them up before we move to Francia in August, but now I don’t know how to get them. Especially my notebook is something that I miss a lot as I use it for work and as an author I have all my writing projects on it. Even blogging is not that much fun from the phone.
“What should we do?” I ask myself over and over again.
How long will this situation go one?
Will it get worse or do we just have to wait for a couple of weeks?
Nobody knows. There are just different theories.
“We still have each other.”, said my boyfriend last night taking my hand and that is true. At least we didn’t had to separate at one of the borders and were forced to phase this situation alone. We are still together and that is all that matters for now. The rest we see tomorrow.
How are you handling the situation? I hope everyone of you has a safe place and is alright. Let´s make the best of the family time and stay home with our loved ones. Play board games, do things that we normally never have the time for at home. And please everyone be careful and don’t risk your life or the life of others, just because you feel like drinking a coffee in a cafe or want to go shopping. Those things can wait, but we all have just ONE life.
I am so sorry this has happened to you, I can’t imagine how upset you must be. Life really can be so cruel sometimes xo
Liebe Tiziana, da ist fast von einem Tag auf den anderen alles anders und euch hat es ja wirklich sehr getroffen. Ich war auch ganz schockiert und verwundert, als Länder verkündet haben, dass Österreicher nicht mehr einreisen dürfen – irgendwie war das für mich plötzlich eine ganz unreale und auch verwirrende Situation. Es war doch für uns eigentlich immer selbstverständlich, dass wir fast überall hinreisen können und so gut wie in keinem Land Probleme haben. Aber das hast du ja so richtig erlebt. Es tut mir total leid für eure Weltreise, die lange Planung und Vorbereitung, aber wichtig ist jetzt trotzdem vor allem, dass ihr in Sicherheit seid, dass ihr gut aufgehoben seid und natürlich dass ihr zusammen seid, auch wenn es so viel anders ist als ihr es geplant und euch vorgestellt habt. Keiner weiß, wie lange die Situation noch dauert, keiner weiß, welche Auswirkungen sie hat. Wir müssen jetzt alle zusammenhalten, indem wir uns alle an die Vorgaben halten und die Verbreitung eindämmen.
Bleib gesund und pass auf dich auf, alles Liebe
Hallo liebe Gesa da hast du absolut Recht! Eindämmung ist essenziell, deswegen sind wir jetzt auch seit 2 Wochen in Home-Quarantine und ich bin so froh zu sehen, dass die meisten Leute sich ebenfalls dran halten. Schicke dir eine Umarmung und hoffe dir und deiner Familie geht es gut
Hi beautiful, thanks for your kind words. First we were really sad but now I’m mostly glad that nothing worse has happened to us. I just hope it will all calm down soon and that we can go „back home“ and see our families.
It is such a horrible situation when you’re in a foreign country and you don’t know where to go next. Gladly you found a place where you can stay and be safe for the moment. Over here most of the European countries are in lockdown, mainly grocery shops and pharacies are still open. Stay safe and healthy!
Little Glittery Box
wow, das ist ja echt eine Wahnsinnsstory, die ihr da hinter euch gebracht habt! Gerade nach eurer intensiven Planungszeit und Vorfreude, ist es wirklich bitter, dass ihr abbrechen musstet. Das ist eine der Situationen, in denen man sich fragt, wozu das gut sein soll.
Ich habe diesen Blogbeitrag vor deinem aktuellen gelesen, daher schaue ich jetzt mal weiter rein, wie der Status bei euch ist.
Ich wünsche euch alles Gute und bleibt gesund!!
Hi Vanessa ja das stimmt in solchen Zeiten kommt man wirklich ins Zweifeln. Doch ich versuche immer das Positive in den kleinen Momenten zu finden und egal wie schwierig die Situation im Moment für uns alle ist, irgendetwas Gutes können wir doch trotz allem in jedem Tag finden 🙂
Ganz liebe Grüße an dich!!
Hi Simone, hope you are still healthy and are alright in this difficult situation.
Wish you all the best!
Oh girl I can imagine the situation and circumstances you guys have been through… traveling is no fun in this crazy Covid-19 situation… good thing is that you are at the safe place now and still with your BF… Thanks for sharing all this hon.. Stay safe and healthy…❤️
Send you a hug gorgeous, hope you are also alright!
It’s such a crazy time- I’m so sorry your trip had to be cut short, that must’ve been so disappointing. Glad you guys are safe in Chicago- and that you have each other!
Le Stylo Rouge
Hi Ashley, hope you are doing alright in these crazy times!
Oh my goodness, Tiziana! I’m so sorry you had to endure all of that. 🙁 Most of all I’m thankful you both are okay and safe though. It’s a very crazy time we are living in right now, but things will get better over time. Hopefully sooner than later!
Make Life Marvelous
Hi Ash, thanks for your sweet words!! Hope you are okay and that you and your loved ones all stay safe!
I’m so sorry your trip got canceled and that you had to go through that just to leave! Glad that you both are safe in Chicago, and I hope you’re doing well x
Kara | http://karascloset.net
Thanks for your sweet message Kara !!
Hope you are also safe and alright 🙂
What a horrible situation! I’m sorry you had to cut your trip short and endure that but so glad you and your boyfriend are safe in Chicago!
Jill – Doused in Pink
Thank you Jill for your nice comment. Hope you are also safe and wish you all the best!
Thank you for sharing this – I am glad that you are safe and together, but what a terrible timing – after all that saving and planning! I am so sorry you had to cut your trip short but these are such crazy times, it’s best to be somewhere safe. I hope things get back to normal soon and you’ll be able to retrieve your things. Stay safe!
Hi Katerina, thanks so much! I hope you and your family are alright as well!!
Oh so sorry to hear you had to cancel it!! Hope you can maybe travel after everything calmed down.
Thank you Anna for your lovely comment!!
Oh this is so terrible. I’m so sorry for you guys!!!
Glad that you are in a safe spot now. Hopefully you can travel back home soon
Thank you Jill for your nice comment. Hope you are also safe and wish you all the best!Thanks Lara!! Hope you and your family are alright <3
Great job being patient and persevering until you were able to get to Chicago safely! At least you are able to be in Chicago during the Spring. I hear it is very beautiful this time of year!
Hi Heidi, so far it´s still pretty cold in Chicago and we haven´t seen much as we are obviously staying at home like everyone else but I hope we can see a bit of the city when everything calmed down 🙂
From what I´ve seen out of the car so far it looks indeed really beautiful and I love the different architectures and the hole vibe of the city